<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<!-- generator="wordpress.com" -->
<urlset xmlns:xsi="http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema-instance" xmlns="http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9" xmlns:image="http://www.google.com/schemas/sitemap-image/1.1" xsi:schemaLocation="http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9 http://www.sitemaps.org/schemas/sitemap/0.9/sitemap.xsd"><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/10/05/making-friends/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/np-book-festival-2018.jpg</image:loc><image:title>NP Book Festival 2018</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2026-02-09T19:46:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2026/02/09/true-or-false-god-wont-give-you-more-than-you-can-handle/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/image-1.png</image:loc><image:title>image</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/image.png</image:loc><image:title>image</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2026-02-10T13:38:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/resources/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/bfs21178010.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Vintage antique magnifying glass against white</image:title><image:caption>Close-up of a vintage antique magnifying glass isolated against a white background</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2024-06-03T15:32:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2023/06/10/i-only-have-eyes-for-you/</loc><lastmod>2023-08-21T14:41:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/i-only-have-eyes-for-you/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/wedding-dance.png</image:loc><image:title>Wedding dance</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/image-1.png</image:loc><image:title>image-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/image.png</image:loc><image:title>image</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-06-10T16:25:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/blog/</loc><lastmod>2023-06-10T16:20:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2017/08/23/why-now/</loc><lastmod>2023-04-24T14:43:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/02/15/fred-talk/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/telling-secrets-by-frederick-buechner.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Telling Secrets by Frederick Buechner</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-04-24T14:39:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2020/03/15/diggin-up-bones/</loc><lastmod>2023-04-24T14:27:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2019/07/05/be-like-a-bird/</loc><lastmod>2019-07-05T14:43:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2019/06/07/making-room-to-grow/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/pexels-photo-565993.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pexels-photo-565993</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-06-07T22:46:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/12/02/high-praise-by-book-judge/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/james-patterson-wd-cover.png</image:loc><image:title>james-patterson-wd-cover</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/assdvpviz3jyapxx9nvf95lmit-grn4r3helzxn_vclpeipfnjbar9chnx0q56lc1dauy5x7lwhqdkydcfad5p6efpxozm1sruzardzau8nhj84eaakbfm4ohtwd7kxhlkbrkzsekzwh7y86vg.png</image:loc><image:title>AssdvPvIz3JyaPxX9NvF95LMit-GRN4R3HelZXN_VclPeipFNjbAr9cHnX0q56lC1DaUY5X7lWHqdkyDCfaD5P6EFPXOZM1sRuZARDZaU8NHJ84eaakbfM4oHtwD7kxHlKBrKZsEkZWH7y86Vg</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-02-02T23:52:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/11/23/giving-thanks/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/pexels-photo-1169084.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pexels-photo-1169084</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-01-15T05:12:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/08/28/memes-matter-5/</loc><lastmod>2018-08-28T12:15:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/08/21/memes-matter-4/</loc><lastmod>2019-02-03T00:05:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/08/13/memes-matter-3/</loc><lastmod>2018-08-13T13:56:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/07/30/podcast-adventure/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/cropped-photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cropped photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-08-11T02:04:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/08/08/memes-matter-2/</loc><lastmod>2018-08-08T12:42:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/08/02/memes-matter-1/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ssm-meme-05a-1200x900.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SSM-Meme-05A-1200x900</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ssm-meme-02b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SSM-Meme-02B</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ssm-meme-01b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SSM-Meme-01B</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ssm-meme-06b-1200x716.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SSM-Meme-06B-1200x716</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ssm-meme-04a-1200x717.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SSM-Meme-04A-1200x717</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2025-06-20T00:18:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/06/25/celebrating-diversity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/5e5fa0ee1a8fcef1f8afaccaad306841_am49.jpg</image:loc><image:title>5e5fa0ee1a8fcef1f8afaccaad306841_am49</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/61rrcnrusml-_ac_us218_.jpg</image:loc><image:title>61RRCNruSmL._AC_US218_</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-06-25T18:42:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/04/08/books-are-my-friends/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/my-book-on-new-nonfiction-shelf-at-warren-library-warren-nj.jpg</image:loc><image:title>My book on New Nonfiction Shelf at Warren Library, Warren, NJ</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-12-12T23:58:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/05/19/i-love-book-groups/</loc><lastmod>2018-05-19T21:56:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/05/04/lonely-as-a-cloud/</loc><lastmod>2018-05-04T01:56:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/03/06/on-the-radio/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/vivian-and-book-march-2018.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Vivian and book March 2018</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-03-11T12:51:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/03/01/my-favorite-memoirs/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/rob-sheffield.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rob Sheffield</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/stacy-morrison.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Stacy Morrison</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/judith-moore.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Judith Moore</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/lucy-grealy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy Grealy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/carolyn-briggs.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carolyn Briggs</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/vivi-and-jeanette-w.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Vivi and Jeanette W</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-12-08T22:02:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2018/02/10/remembering-barbara-jordan/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/doc1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Doc1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/image-e1518303165643.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Image</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-02-10T23:19:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2017/11/13/reaching-out-to-clergy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/straightspouse-postcard-front_page_1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>StraightSpouse postcard front_Page_1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-11-13T18:52:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2017/10/25/__trashed/</loc><lastmod>2017-10-25T17:08:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2017/09/09/behold-my-book-is-born/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/book-arrival-at-vivians-doorstep.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Book Arrival at Vivian's Doorstep</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-02-23T03:27:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/2017/05/30/why-bother/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/fransenportrait-8265-500x7201.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FransenPortrait-8265-500x720</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-06-30T02:27:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/about/</loc><lastmod>2017-05-30T19:21:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com/contact/</loc><lastmod>2017-05-30T16:56:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://straightspousememoir.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2026-02-10T13:38:48+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
